Thoughts are things. Thoughts create well-being, and hey form events of life. The quality of ideas gives an advantage in the journey through life. We must be careful when we let random thoughts to shape our behavior. Consequences could be severe because it takes time to fix things if something went wrong.
Avoid Negativity in the Life
Strange things happen. We lost in unfortunate situations. Relatives or family members suffer or die. Jobs lost. When we let negative thoughts rule the world, we attract negative things to lives.
Change Negative Thoughts with Positive Thoughts
I think that everybody knows how negative thoughts influence mood. It is enough a few minutes for negative thoughts to take over and spoil the great day for our friends or family or us.
The best way to rid of negative thoughts is the change them with positive thoughts. We can think at the same time just about one subject. We can not plan the trip to Alaska and at the same minute to choose what kind of bread we will buy. It does not matter how long is the thought in our head; we can think just one idea at the time. It means that we must check our concept and, as soon as possible, change negative thinking with positive.
The Attention Pays Off
When we control our thoughts, we invite habits to live. Positive thinking relaxes body and mind. It means that we can concentrate on our goals and dreams.
Look for Wise People
I think that mentors play a huge role in humans lives. We stream to learn from them. We can attend conferences, meetings, read books, and ask questions if mentors are alive. We know if somebody reached their goals, we can do the same.
The Priority for Important Things
The television and video games are addictive and can swallow energy and time. Time is the essential thing in life. We can not buy it or borrow it. It means that we can not waste time on small items such as gossip or interest in how neighbors live. We must focus on our goals.
Communicate with Positive People
Everybody knows how the real company or joke can lift the mood and give a push forward. Positive people create a comfortable environment and spread comforting energy.
Strive for Perfection and Evolve Best Traits of Character
We can surround us with the best books, attend conferences, and listen to famous and successful people. Unfortunately, without effort and action, we will stay in the same place. We will be dreamers, not players and performers. Dreams are great. Without ideas, we can not paint a picture of our goals.
When we have dreams, we must put the foundation under them. Without action, we can not move forward.
Sam says
Great article Nemira. You put it down with truth and simplicity. I like that! I will return to your site to see what you have going on. I’m sure I’ll love that too! Having the right thoughts is the key to having a happy and successful life. The best to you, and keep up the great work!
Nemira says
Hello, Sam, thanks for input. I am glad that you found in my article some helpful insights. Overall I think these thoughts are universal. I repeat them again and again because it is so easy go in the life with the crowd and be influenced by TV or opinion from well wishing friends and relatives. We must to turn ourselves to positive side of life and remember that the quality of life is in our hands. All the best, Nemira.
Aless says
I’ve always been a negative person and it’s always been affecting me in more than one way. You’re so right about avoiding negativity and the way thoughts have an influence over our lives.
My bad thoughts have had a bad influence on mine, maybe it would be time to change that for my sake.
Nemira says
Hello, Aless, you are not alone. I guess most of people have this issue. I catch myself rethinking the same thought again and again. I try my best to use positive affirmations anytime when I catch myself with negative or useless thoughts. I wish that you would reach your goals and change yourself in a way which lets you to achieve everything good in your life. Cheers.
FranMcK says
Nemira,
Thank you for an inspiring and thought provoking post. You have given me some really practical and useful tips about how to achieve what we want in life and how to tackle negativity. I especially like the suggestion that we focus on bettering ourselves rather than worrying about how other people might be getting on better in their life.
Fran
Nemira says
Hello, Fran, I am glad that you liked this blog. Most important that you can adapt it in your life.
All the best, Nemira.
T & C says
Very helpful and thought provoking article Nemira. I appreciate the suggestions to bring other people into your circle and communicate with others for help and guidance. Making changes can be hard enough to do on our own, so having support networks can be very positive and affective, I agree!
Thanks for sharing!
Nemira says
Hello here. Support from friends family or coworkers is great trigger to go after goals. We will choose what do we want but having supportive people around help us in the time of doubt or concern.
All the best, be healthy and wealthy, Nemira